"Yeah it makes a lot of sense." Phoebe assures her friend. "It's hard, really hard, to give up something that makes a difference in your life. That makes you believe you're a better person because of it." She got that, even if for her it was magic and helping people instead of a person. Phoebe didn't feel like she was a screw up when she got letters thanking her for her advice or she saw the look of gratitude on an innocent's face when she and her sisters helped.

"And to give up a person you care about on top of that, even if you know it would be good for them, is just as hard."