"I have been." She weighs it, then shakes her head. "I don't think you should put it in the paper. It sounds...like I'm trying to score points."

Now she actually looks uncertain and reaches for her drink. "I don't know. Maybe you should. I am sorry that people were hurt or upset. But if I read that, I'd be annoyed like the person who hurt me thought that was enough. I guess I don't really think like normal people about stuff like that, though?"