Now that Phoebe had quite a lot of experience in. Sadly. She turned her body away from the screen and looked at Kate. "Oh I so get that. When Cole proposed to me, the first time, I freaked. Honest to God, deer caught in the headlights oh hell no freaked." She debated a half a second but seeing Kate's life if only a version that possibly could happen, told Phoebe that she'd understand Phoebe being a witch.

"I even did a spell that brought up every single one of my fears." She made a face, "it bit me on the ass and turned me into a cliche 50s housewife complete with slippers and pipe waiting for my man." Phoebe almost gagged at the thought. "Needless to say my fear that I'd lose me in a relationship only had me pushing Cole further away."

It hadn't stuck of course because Cole was stubborn like that and her love for him was enough to finally get over her fears.