"Listen," Kate says, pushing herself up off his chest and looking down at him. She's trying not to get upset about this, but he pretty much just said he thinks she's damaged goods and he's not listening to her.

She exhales slowly, shakes her head and says quietly, "You know that fight we just had? You're kind of doing it again." This is hard for her. Especially hard to do it without raising her voice and running away. But she doesn't want that. She doesn't want to fight with him. She just wants him to get her. That means letting him hear that this hurts.

"I get that you want to be good to me and it's sweet." Her voice gets lower, fingertips trace along his collarbone and she can't quite meet his gaze. "But whoever that girl is who needs long slow build to orgasms and for you to warn her before you come? She's not me. I need you to be with me."